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Continuing pregnancy after abortion mumsnet and then stop. Nov 25, 2024 · Abortion is such a traumatic and emotional experience but please try and remember you were ok before this and you can be ok after this. I found myself pregnant when I was on 5 week I get panicked and I try to terminate my baby but my abortion is failed and I get clots and bleeding but not that much I took one oral and two in vagina tablet name is breeky eni how I have some very personal reason so I don’t want to continue right now but when I went to Dr she checked me very well I don’t tell her that I took pill but Mar 16, 2018 · Sorry you're going through this, but i don't think you can continue with the pregnancy. Has anyone had any experiences of getting pregnant so soon after a abortion or is it most likley i will get my period first. I’ve recently had a medical abortion and I have never regretted anything more in my life. I had an surgical abortion 6weeks+3days ago for personal reasons. The gynecologist also did a pregnancy test to which it came back a faint positive (what they call false positives) and told me even if you have the hcg count of 50 a urine pregnancy test will pick that up so it doesnt mean anything. I then took a pregnancy test just to see & it was a blazing positive. Sep 8, 2021 · @SudokuZebra I don’t believe in medication for depression , I’m bipolar and I’m un medicated. I felt that as it was my 'fault' for falling pregnant I should do what I felt was the correct thing to do for us. 5 weeks. The first set of 4 pills I took was excruciating, with terrible cramping to the point I was scared to take the second two but after they had been put in my cheek I had dull cramping and then went to the toilet, where without being too NSFW or upsetting to Mar 25, 2024 · Ive found out that I'm pregnant. In the case of a continuing pregnancy, the abortion has failed and the woman remains pregnant. I feel as though this is my karma as I wasn't 100% sure on the abortion and acted more out of panic, I wish I gave myself more time to think about it but with each day the baby growing more, the symptoms getting worse and it becoming more real, I didn't want to leave it any longer Dec 10, 2020 · Hi everyone, I am really wanting my 3rd baby now but I'm sorry worried my surgical abortion has effected my ability to carry a baby :(I have two beautiful children ages 3&5 I had no problems carrying them, then I fell pregnancy in may 2019 but due to severe sickness I wasn't able to look after my children and depression soon kicked in, I wasn't thinking clearly and I got rid of my baby :( I Feb 9, 2023 · Hey mumsnet, I am looking for some experiences. Sep 5, 2023 · Had a medical abortion 2. Well done for being honest about it. You may also be able to get an ultrasound or blood test to make sure that the abortion worked. Feb 4, 2022 · I was told to take the special pregnancy test given to me at 3 weeks which will be next friday. Oct 9, 2023 · For most mums, if the pregnancy does continue, the baby develops normally. So basically I just found out I was pregnancy last week. Jul 30, 2019 · Meaning my body was on the right track. I’m here for some advice. This was mainly because we were relocating to the other side of the world 6 weeks after we found out. So I decided to end the pregnancy. Emotional is another matter. I think it was around 3 weeks after due to another pregnancy scare (Yes, 18, in an abusive relationship and extremely stupid before anyone judges 🙈). Mar 6, 2023 · Hi, please I need help I had a surgical abortion 06/17/23 was 5weeks + 3 days since I had that after 3 days have been feelings pregnancy symptoms more and more, my boobs getting bigger, I can’t eat, morning sickness, vomit. Pregnancy & baby After Abortion 1 reply Hope9 · 09/02/2023 15:09 Hey mumsnet, I am looking for some Jul 28, 2019 · I’ve not used this before but feel I have no one to talk to. ?! I made the decision to end the pregnancy Via medication termination. Bleeding continued, symptoms remained (although not so bad) & pregnancy test still positive. It must be really hard for you now your sister is pregnant I hope you can find a counsellor to help you get through this difficult time ☹️ Apr 11, 2021 · Please please no judgement. Apr 4, 2022 · I had a medical abortion on the 26th Feb this year. Oct 10, 2022 · On the 5th day of my period my partner and I had unprotected sex. looking back, I should never have had the abortion. Nov 19, 2024 · Hi, I found out I was pregnant yesterday (our 4th cycle trying) and I had an abortion at 5 weeks after falling pregnant pretty much exactly a year ago. You're already more than a third of the way through your pregnancy. Also from reading OP’s original post she said they had conversations about a hypothetical third child, not that the decided to plan one, and simply changed their minds. I still haven't had my period and me and my partner are trying to get pregnant again, we had been trying 2 days after the abortion. His family and my dad are saying the same thing. I found out I was pregnant on Monday and instantly knew it wasn't what I wanted. I’ve had sickness from my missed period :( xx Feb 23, 2023 · I Can say my feelings have changed and as my pregnancy progressed I started to bond with the baby especially once I found out what I was having, after my very bad sickness and symptoms eased off at about 20 weeks I started to bond and now I'm glad I didn't have an abortion and am so excited for the baby to arrive. Follow-up examinations (2 weeks after operation) detected failed abortion in 22% of cases. i know i went quite crazy- even looking at sperm donation on the Sep 1, 2022 · I ended up going for BPAS because the telephone appointment they could get for me after my form had been submitted and reviewed was next day, whereas the others were around a week away. Later found out she was still pregnant. dont get me wrong the pregnancy was hard mentally as was paniced that something would be wrong (i still have days when i do) but i also knew that i would have been worried with any pregnancy. Nov 23, 2024 · (I was never very regular in the first place). They'll scan you there and arrange for addition treatment if it's needed (repeat tablets or possibly surgery). I randomly decided to do a pregnancy test today (or 4😂)and they've come out as a faint positives. I started bleeding about 3 hours after quite heavily for a few hours but by early afternoon and all of today I’ve barely had to change a pad. Normal pregnancy tests can show positive for several weeks afterwards as they’re so sensitive. Mar 7, 2024 · Hi I don't think I've ever added a thread, but I did search the archives when I was making my decision, so thought I'd add my experience to help anyon Jun 22, 2021 · You should feel "less pregnant" in two days and your boobs should hurt considerably less in 5 days. Fast forward 2-3 weeks, I did the test BPAS sent me and it came back negative. I fell pregnant using contraception, my son is 2 and my daughter was 5 months when I fell pregnant and not long over 6 months when I had the abortion. I'm struggling so much with this pregnancy I really think I'm going to have to make the choice as I can't live like this much longer. If your mental health was so poor you'd have found the birth and early weeks very hatd, it could have tipped you over into PND. May 23, 2013 · After much deliberation, driven partly by my guilt at it being 'my fault' , I chose to have a termination for the sake of my marriage and our current family. May 9, 2024 · I thought the abortion was successful. Nov 21, 2024 · Should women be allowed to choose an abortion if they are at risk of dying in childbirth, or if they are addicted to drugs and damaging their baby? Those are some of the reasons for abortions after 24 weeks. But that’s the heart side of me, the reasons why I made the decision still stand, I wanted to give my two children and elderly mum the best they could have - mostly that being my time, not material things although looking at our energy bills now I have no idea how we’d have managed with mat leave. I think that's why I went for a surgicalno time for second thoughts during the process. Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. Jan 2, 2019 · Hi all just wondering if anyone has any insight/opinions on this I had an abortion last month (surgical at 13 weeks). I believe in a more holistic approach to medicine . Oct 7, 2024 · hi, I had a medical abortion 4 weeks and 1 day ago. If possible, we advise women with continuing pregnancies to undergo surgical or medical abortion to terminate the pregnancy. Aug 2, 2019 · My life was crumbling but I continued to work as much as I could so I didn’t have to extend my studies. May 16, 2021 · Ah I'm so sorry for what you're going through. It does seem very strong OP. Objective: We conducted a systematic review of the literature on the effectiveness of medical abortion "reversal" treatment. I was still feeling very unwell (severe pregnancy sickness and high blood pressure: my reasons for not being able to continue with the pregnancy to begin with) after the pills, went back to the clinic who confirmed I was still pregnant. Took a pregnancy test 3 weeks after the date of the abortion and it came back negative. Mar 16, 2022 · I took 2 Diclofenac at 10:00, 2 Co-Codamol at 14:00… And then repeated in the late evening/before bed… I haven’t taken anything today! At about 11pm I had some quite bad pain (I would say like very bad period pains) but managed to go to sleep. Your boyfriend did not want this pregnancy. Mar 14, 2023 · I sadly took the decision to terminate my pregnancy 3 weeks ago with a medical abortion at home . So if you’ve had sex without using birth control since having an abortion, a positive pregnancy test could mean that you’re pregnant again. Both went on to keep the remaining pregnancy (although one didnt actually know she was still pregnant until very, very late on in the pregnancy). May 18, 2021 · Then after 2 days, I went to washroom and passed a little tissue type things it was like whitish and brownish tissue something. From the day i found out i was pregnant and got in contact with the clinic, until the day of the abortion kit arriving, only 6 days had passed. You have so much more to see and do and experience in life and you have people in your life who love and value you. Mar 11, 2023 · I am so sorry you are going through the pain right now-- those first few weeks after was the worst time of my whole life. May 31, 2024 · Hello, looking for advice as I’m a bit worried my medical abortion was unsuccessful. ) and it was very difficult for her at the time, but she wouldn't have been without her son and he was born Jun 27, 2023 · Hi. Extreme indigestion after eating just small amounts of food. Jul 28, 2022 · one going through such pain after abortion. He is now 15 and absolutely fine! Dec 15, 2019 · A pregnancy test should be taken two weeks post abortion. I had an abortion as soon as I could after finding out I was pregnant. i am in my early twenties and dec Aug 23, 2023 · Hi I had a medical termination six weeks ago, I done a low sensitivity test 3 weeks after which was negative ( did it in the late afternoon with a dribble of urine ) I have had positive store bought tests since and today I done a clear blue digital which says pregnant 1-2, could this be a new pregnancy as I had unprotected intercourse a week after the abortion but used the POM and had the Feb 5, 2024 · Just be honest with him from the start say this is how it is I’m pregnant I know it’s not ideal but I can’t contemplate abortion I hope you understand . Aug 3, 2022 · Yes I did and sadly made no difference at all, did they work with you? And if so which ones? I have decided to not have an abortion, I knew I’d never be able to get over the guilt. I'm not sad, I'm not happy either. I was terrified with this news. Both of our DC were IVF babies and this pregnancy was unexpected (we were told almost impossible to have natural pregnant by our consultant) but after absolutely agonising over the decision we decided we couldn’t cope with a 3rd baby. How did you feel straight after your abortion and did it take long to come to terms with it afterwards. I was still cramping when I got into bed at 10pm but less intense than they were throughout the whole process I only had to change my heavy flow pad once as most of the bleeding was when I was on the toilet Oct 4, 2022 · Have you done the test that your provider gave you to do three weeks after the abortion? What was the result on that? If that one was positive you need to follow the instructions in your pack and contact your provider as you may have leftover tissue. Research shows that the risk of continuing pregnancies change as per the length of pregnancy during medical abortion. I feel so alone right now. Apr 23, 2024 · However, it IS possible to get pregnant very soon after an abortion, even if pregnancy tests are coming up positive or your period hasn’t started yet. Feb 5, 2020 · After this she got back to normal life including drinking and smoking at parties. Nov 12, 2023 · Hello, i had a medical abortion at 8 weeks through bpas, I passed some large clots and bled for a few days so thought everything had gone as it should, I did the pregnancy test that they sent 3 weeks later which turned out positive, contacted bpas and went to a clinic for an assessment, they told me I was still pregnant and now 14 weeks I Mar 19, 2024 · It’s possible to become pregnant again very soon after your abortion; an egg can be released as early as 8 days after the procedure, which means you could become pregnant again before you even have your next period. May 2, 2020 · Please no judgement - So I had a abortion on Thursday (medical method) and was told to expect the bleeding to be heavy and once the pregnancy passes Oct 9, 2017 · I heard of a lot of relationships failing after an abortion but only when they weren't great to begin with. (Taking the tablets) Jul 24, 2019 · I had to take mine 2 weeks after and it was also positive I had a scan and then confirmed everything had passed, however I did get an infection I had to have antibiotics for. From what I understand the first pill stops the pregnancy by overriding the hormones, and the second causes you to expel the pregnancy. I took pregnancy test again and it was clear positive. Im 6 weeks pregnant and already hating being pregnant. Pregnancy test still positive after 2 weeks. 5 weeks after had my first period it was heavy gloopy and smallish clots, sorry for TMI Dec 7, 2022 · I felt the same, I really hit the floor and still now 10 months on I wish I could turn back time. We argued though, I said I wasn’t comfortable having a baby until he showed more effort with my son and he said he would not live with me unless I got rid of my dog (I’ve had him 7 years). . Provide that the abortion won't hurt him then I don't think that it should have a negative effect on your relationship. Mar 26, 2024 · I went on to have another baby-). all i would say is that the absolute desperate desire to have a child immediately after a termination is somewhat biological and feels almost animalistic. Mar 2, 2022 · I had a medical abortion at 9 weeks, after taking the tablets I was in horrible pain and cramping for just over an hour and continued to bleed lightly for just over 2 weeks… I had assumed the procedure had worked to the pain, bleeding and occasional clotting. The thought of ending up tied for life to the tosser who got me pregnant is horrific . was a really hard time of my life regardless. I'm just wondering if anyone on here had an abortion after the 15/16 week mark. Mar 6, 2023 · Hi. Some women like to take HCB (beta) hormone blood tests to control for pregnancy. I'd say you might have some retained placenta in there which you'll find out on Friday I presume. I've just had my first period after and it's seems all has returned to normal physically. Jul 3, 2024 · Mine failed after rather painful contractions and passing of a big clot. You had several valid reasons for not continuing with this pregnancy. I had a medical abortion quickly after finding out. I sympathise with all you have been through. , 2013). May 3, 2024 · I took the high sensitivity pregnancy test that they gave me 3 weeks later to confirm that the termination was successful, which it was. After that j start bleeding for the next 2 days. I expected it to be a bit irregular but it still doesn’t stop me from worrying! I took a pregnancy test yesterday which was negative after my TOP pregnancy test last week which was also negative. But if you are in doubt about the possibility of the pregnancy having continued, definitely contact your abortion provider as soon as you can. The best way to be really confident that your womb is ready for a pregnancy is to wait a bit, use barrier contraception, and have a full normal period cycle, taking a pregnancy test after you have bled and confirming that it is definitely negative. 3%). Jul 17, 2022 · Am 4weeks gone, i used miso-fem 2vaginal and 2orally, I had little cramps and I used ibuprofen, I had little and small clot in the first day and not bleeding or clot again, after 48 hours I used miso-fem again, I had little cramps, little bleeding and one very small clot dat day and it stopped, is the abortion successful or not Aug 26, 2024 · It's such a difficult and conflicting situation to be in. Patients who said they still felt pregnant were ignored in 1/2 the cases. Sep 20, 2018 · What a difficult situation. Apr 9, 2022 · Basically in February (8weeks ago) I had a medical abortion at 5 weeks pregnant. Jan 17, 2022 · I had a late term medical at 17 weeks due to suffering with severe mental disorders I was deemed unfit to continue pregnancy by my family and doctors, so I felt pressured to go through with it. And rarely think about it now 3 years later. 5 weeks I was pregnant due to contraception not working. Jul 15, 2023 · Because after asking the OP to go through an abortion, then asking her to try for a baby, then waiting for her to get pregnant and claiming he wants her to get an abortion AGAIN! You can't possibly mean there will be plenty of opportunities with this abusive bastard? Jul 31, 2024 · Don't be ashamed @Brina89 you did the best thing for you at that time. I'm so glad I was able to terminate the pregnancy and live my life without him. Oct 6, 2024 · I had a medical abortion due to health issues. Sep 23, 2022 · The largest prospective study of 46 women continuing a pregnancy after mifepristone resulted in eight miscarriages and, in the pregnancies that continued, two major malformations (5. I started talking to a guy and we’ve been seeing each other for 4 Jul 16, 2019 · Sending lots of love but my friend was in a similar situation and fell prevent soon after the abortion however couldn't bond/love her second baby because she was so in love with the aborted baby. This gave me focus or so I thought. 2 hours after the second pills I had strong Cramps and 3 plum sized clots with some heavy bleeding that lasted 2-3 hours. I know I was told, if I chosen medical abortion, once I had taken the first pills then the abortion had begun. I have a dc 6 months old. Had a medical abortion through BPAS who were really helpful. The pregnancy was quite far along and she decided to keep the baby. Aug 4, 2024 · I have no one else to speak to, no females I can confide in. After a lot of soul searching and sadness, we decided not to keep it. I also started my adhd meds in the last 3 weeks and have been abit away with the fairy’s… me and my boyfriend stupidly had sex using the pull out method after week 2 I can’t remember when exactly but I assumed all would be ok as I was still slightly bleeding! Mar 3, 2024 · So I’ve recently had a surgical abortion I was 12 weeks and 3 days I’ve been bleeding for a week and 2 days I very much regret my choice and decision, and for the people who have had surgical abortion and tried to get pregnant straight after I was wondering how long it had taken to conceive again? Oct 24, 2023 · When I found out I was pregnant last time he was excited, nervous but excited. After trial and errors I found a specific combination of medicine that helped with the 20-30 daily vomiting episodes. If it's positive, ring the clinic you had treatment for a post-op appointment. Fast forward to today, 5 weeks after the termination and 2 weeks after it was confirmed by the test I was given - I have had a positive pregnancy test. But do not invalidate the reasons your head, as you say, made at the time. Feb 26, 2023 · How could he expect me to continue the pregnancy knowing he was going to leave me with the baby. Continuing this pregnancy could take a mother away from two little children, what you are doing is the best thing for your family. I felt the most horrendous guilt afterwards and was also worried that I would never be able to get pregnant again. Had a medical abortion in January this year. I was just over 6 weeks pregnant. Jun 24, 2024 · Im a 24 year old with a 4 year old child, im not with the dad and he’s not involved. Apr 22, 2022 · The same thing happened to me when I was young. It came as a complete shock and we both agreed that we didn’t believe we were ready. Sep 24, 2021 · Thank you all for your replies. I was just getting weak day by day. You did the right thing. So currently, the way I see it, both my options suck for one of us (obviously as a woman I am in more of a disadvantage). This is my main worry, how I will feel after. Be kind to yourself x Jan 3, 2024 · You have gone through a horrible time since you found out you were pregnant. Jun 26, 2022 · At the start of May, me and my partner found out I was pregnant. I envy these women that feel amazing In pregnancy. Then in April, I didn't get my periods. To me having a child is hard enough with 2 people but it harder for a single mother. Feb 18, 2022 · This is not the time to be considering an abortion just because the timing isn't quite right and you would like to travel more. There was usually a small amount. Jun 8, 2022 · I took misoprostol 3 doses but I didn't bleed yet it has been two days ,does it mean that it was unsuccessful Nov 25, 2020 · I felt a bit guilty straight after my abortion but hormones and honestly now I feel nothing (I don't even really think about it unless something like this comes up) - the pain for me was like a bad period, I'd suggest pain killers, hot water bottle, chocolate and a film day - maybe ask someone to look after DD for the day and you take your time to recover Mar 5, 2020 · Hi, I’ve recently found out I’m pregnant after my conception failed as did the morning after pill. However, you do not need to explain your reasons to anyone for not continuing with the pregnancy. I was so so angry with myself for allowing myself to talked into an abortion when I had always believed it would never be something that would be right for me. My mum I believe is on the side of continuing the pregnancy. My best friend didnt find out she was pregnant until she was 29 weeks (shocking i know) but she smoked, she drank, she was on medication you arent allowed to take in pregnancy. I decided within 5 mins of finding out Mar 23, 2021 · I'm currently 5 weeks with a planned pregnancy. I was in pieces the weeks before the abortion, I was ashamed, Terrified and completely torn in my decision. Having an abortion at this stage would be very traumatic. My pregnancy tests were still coming back as positive 4-5 weeks after my miscarriage. Sep 27, 2020 · My husband is not happy about the pregnancy and wants me to terminate. Aug 24, 2023 · I had a medical abortion 5 days ago and my bleeding still hasn't reduced. Please help me if you can. Mar 26, 2017 · Thats not a reason to have an abortion. Wondering what I’d look like now if I was still pregnant, wondering how my unborn child would be growing, wondering what my baby would be like when they were Failed Abortion- Continued pregnancy after finding out. You are soon going to get a noticeable bump and feel your baby kicking. It’s started heavy and gradually decreased and all my symptoms went away- sore boobs and being sick. I haven’t yet missed my period but have had a number of positive early pregnancy tests and feel pregnant too. i do have moments of sadness about who the Apr 25, 2021 · The first pill would end the pregnancy, then 48 hours later I would insert 4 more pills into my vagina to miscarry and 4 hours after that, insert another 2 to continue bleeding. Hormones took awhile to settle so the month or so after did feel odd Mar 10, 2024 · Hi, so I had a medical abortion just over 5 weeks ago. (I never have indigestion) Made coffee yesterday (as soon as I was pregnant coffee was no longer pleasant but I loveeee coffee when not pregnant) Had to rush to the washroom to throw up after a sip of coffee. I waited another week but was still getting a very positive test so contacted my EPU. Grieve for the pregnancy that did not continue, by all means. Nov 29, 2021 · If you are going to continue with this pregnancy you need to be prepared to raise the baby on your own as you are in a new relationship so you can't really know how your boyfriend will react to fatherhood. Jun 26, 2023 · and continued to bleed for a good 2 weeks. I was reliving my trauma again, being a single mother with two kids…I couldn’t fathom the thought. The decision to allow abortion after 24 weeks is a balancing act. 4 weeks ago today I had a medical abortion, at Mar 18, 2024 · I’m 41, I’ve got 2 lovely DC aged 5 and 3 and a supportive DH. My doctor did an ultrasound after 2 weeks and said uterus is absolutely fine. 1- terminate the pregnancy and resent my husband for it (especially since it's a twin pregnancy) 2- continue with the pregnancy and my husband will resent me for it, or worse leave me and I end up a single mum to 5 kids. Took the first tablet Friday and the 4 yesterday. It's brought up lots of past trauma and greif that I'm suddenly battling at once - along with this and deciding we are not going to continue with the pregnancy I am completely absorbed by guilt and I havent even ended the pregnancy yet. I took pregnancy test at week 3, it shows negative. They told me the day of my ab Jun 16, 2024 · Hi all, Just looking for some advise/to get this off my chest. I was 7 weeks pregnant at the time. She was living with all this guilt and thought falling pregnant would help and sort everything but it just made her feel so much worse. It has been 5 weeks now since I last had sex. Jun 16, 2019 · I chose surgical abortion as I wanted everything done and over the same day. Nov 16, 2023 · if you want an abortion you should have one for any reason or no reason other than that you want one. Nov 19, 2024 · I had a medical abortion (pills by post) just over 3 weeks ago. Feb 14, 2022 · Going back, I should have take the low sensitivity pregnancy test at exactly 3 weeks after the procedure for avoidance of doubt. I feel as though they should have to record it so they can update their stats. Sep 13, 2020 · I'm not to take the pregnancy test that I was given from the hospital until Thursday but I have been taking pregnancy test of the weekend that I have. Nov 14, 2024 · 1- terminate the pregnancy and resent my husband for it (especially since it's a twin pregnancy) 2- continue with the pregnancy and my husband will resent me for it, or worse leave me and I end up a single mum to 5 kids. Had a scan yesterday which showed some retained products - not sure how much but she said it wasn’t terrible! I’m booked in for surgery next week with a scan first incase it has changed. Sep 29, 2023 · You are doing the right thing. It's good that you're going to the maternity hospital so you can know you're doing everything for the best outcome possible. Maybe look into counselling to help you come to terms with your mixed feelings about your abortion and current pregnancy. Thought it was my period coming back, blood got heavier with lots of gushing & palm-sized clots. We would need a long weekend to complete the process. the baby is now 3 months old and i am very thank ful for another chance. Neither malformation was thought to be related to mifepristone exposure but may have been a result of other medical conditions (Bernard et al. I had a 9month old when I fell pregnant and we would have had an 18m age gap. Nov 8, 2019 · Home pregnancy tests are super sensitive and can pick up quite low levels of HCG (can't remember the exact level). So decided mutually with partner that termination would be better for my body & own mental health. If its an incomplete pregnancy will it most definitely come up positive? I will call both doctor and the abortion clinic tomorrow. Early detection and diagnosis of failed abortion is necessary to avoid the more complex procedures required in later stages of pregnancy. I was angry with my husband and others that had told me it would be ok. Jul 19, 2023 · I administered my medical abortion yesterday at 7 weeks pregnant, taking my second set of pills that enduce the bleeding around 9:10pm. If the pregnancy test is negative then I'd just have the scan at the hospital. I also had PND with my first two children and was in a MH hospital for 2 months with my first. Fast forward to last week - I started bleeding very heavily at exactly 4 weeks post medical abortion. Once the pills are taken it was strongly advised to continue on as not finishing the pills could be harmful to your health and the health of the fetus. I called the clinic they put me in an appointment in 3 days. I made a last minute choice to terminate the pregnancy after going back and forth for weeks. Your second pregnancy sounds so scary. I got pregnant on purpose weeks after the abortion. Apr 7, 2024 · I had a negative test quick quickly after my medical abortion. Oct 17, 2020 · Hi OP I wanted to share with you my story , I gave birth to my DD ( c section) and about 3 months later I found out I was pregnant again , at first I was in disbelief, then I came round to the idea , I even booked myself in to the hospital and was so excited to see everything was progressing , but then the worry kicked in , I was worried about Nov 1, 2023 · after this i continued to cramp and passed maybe a few more tiny clots and continued to bleed when peeing. A while ago, I found out I was pregnant and he forced me into having an abortion well he didn't force me, but he said he wanted nothing to do with me or the baby if I kept it, and that id never see him again. I bled heavy the week after it and then it was very light second week but for the past 4 days iv been really heavy again! Nov 5, 2024 · Honestly, these days when I see pregnant women I feel triggered. We decided to do it the following weekend. Mar 7, 2023 · However recently found out I was pregnant, after conformation and consultations I had the choice of continuing with pregnancy knowing I would miscarry but could be as late as 24weeks or have termination. I felt pushed into an abortion by parents etc I didn’t think clearly about what I was doing and it all happened so fast. Nov 18, 2020 · Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. Jul 10, 2022 · i had my medical abortion at 5 weeks - 4 weeks & 2 days ago (from miso dose) my periods are normally always around 28 days. Mar 1, 2021 · Hopefully not your case, in these 2 people I knew both had been unknowingly pregnant with twins and had lost one due to the abortion and the other stuck. Jul 21, 2019 · I don't know how likely it is for a continuing pregnancy after an abortion, but it can happen or it could possibly be retained tissue or simply just hormones either way you should try and ring your clinic to inform them and get the answer as not to scare you but if you are pregnant the sooner you know the better and if it is retained tissue Jul 1, 2021 · Well my uterus was completely clear on my scan post abortion (I had a scan as I didn’t feel I’d passed enough to complete the abortion) so it’s not continued pregnancy or retained tissue. i found out at 4. Apr 21, 2022 · Hey guys. I started cerelle straight away after the abortion and 3 weeks began having sex again. Sep 7, 2022 · The grief after the abortion hit me like a tonne of bricks, I struggled to function I drank far far too much. It can STILL be the right decision. Jul 9, 2023 · BUT symptoms of pregnancy are coming back or more apparent than before. I hope you get the result you are wanting Nov 12, 2020 · Hi everyone - just looking for some overall support. It was done at home and the pregnancy test after 3 weeks showed it was negative. You need one after termination, and one a few days after, and if the number is less it means that the action was a success. I had a BPAS consultation on weds as am considering a termination and they were very clear that if the medical abortion failed then surgical was the only route available as the pregnancy would be severely compromised by having taken the medication. Going back to my abortion there was a tiny tiny bit of pregnancy tissue left which they said should come out on my period and not concerning. It was never really heavy but it's still as bad as it was the day Dec 3, 2024 · I have never with any of my other children thought of not continuing with the pregnancy but I feel as if another baby would maybe cause alot of complications & stress but I just can't shake the feeling of guilt & sadness of having an abortion & wether it's going to cause me alot of distress afterwards if I went through with an abortion. Aug 3, 2020 · So my partner and I have been together nearly two years,I am a 3rd year mental health nursing student living at home with my mother and he lived with Apr 1, 2020 · Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. So I continued and took the last tablets orally. I’m about 3. Jun 15, 2022 · @Anon7744885 thanks for replying, it’s good to hear I’m not the only one with children already and considering an abortion. Apr 26, 2022 · My life after my abortion (in the mid-1990s) has been a million times better than it would have been if I hadn't terminated the pregnancy. 5 weeks ago. As for my ex I’ve not heard a thing , in fact he’s blocked my number since he saw I removed him from my socials , I didn’t want to see him living his playboy lifestyle whilst I was suffering daily with this decision . Jul 11, 2023 · So after this one big clot the bleeding slowed down but I wasn’t sure it if was the pregnancy that passed and assumed it was the big clotting starting, that’s what I’ve seen from what others have said. Apr 23, 2024 · If you get your abortion pills from a health care provider like Planned Parenthood, they may give you a special, extra-sensitive pregnancy test to use later to make sure the abortion worked. I considered abortion with my third too but DH was was feeling guilt and left the choice to me, and I too felt I could not do it. 2 weeks on I took a normal pregnancy test and it came back positive! I spoke to BPAS and they said not to use them due to hormones it might still show and use a low sensitivity one. Hope you are ok. I fell pregnant last year accidentally and i knew at the time that having the baby wasn't the right th Feb 13, 2019 · About 20 months ago, my partner of a year and I discovered we were pregnant after a split condom and an ineffective morning after pill. I've been in bed and crying n May 18, 2018 · I had an abortion at 7/8 weeks I didn't have any cramps at all and only light bleeding nothing compared to the stories I've read about it so after waiting the 2 weeks i took the pregnancy test given from the hospital it came back positive they got me up for an appointment the same day and done a scan which showed the baby was still there and Nov 8, 2019 · Hi ladies, this is a very sensitive subject to me so please no negativity. A friend of mine went through with a pregnancy after a failed abortion. Jul 8, 2022 · @Irishlucy Thankyou I'm trying not to actually think about it, it was a hard choice I had a emergency C-section 7 months ago and it left with with all aniexty and worries about things so mentally wasn't prepared to go through it again. I went to my GP and after ultrasound, I got to know that I was 16 weeks pregnant with a healthy baby boy. I was told I was infertile and used fertility treatment for my dc and two other babies who I lost at 5 weeks and 22 weeks. Now, 5 months later, I am still struggling. How far along into the pregnancy are you now? My friend had a termination at 17 weeks after a scan and announcing her pregnancy to family and friends, because she didn't feel ready for a baby. Dec 1, 2019 · Hi, I'm looking for some advice, I had a much regretted abortion in september and was devastated after, the reasons I had at the time seem so stupid now, I really struggled at first but somehow started to think slightly less about it, it still made me sad but I didnt cry all the time I'd say the rawness had got better, but now I feel like I'm back to square one!! Jun 14, 2022 · had an abortion at the end of march, I think I was roughly 5 weeks. May 26, 2022 · Hi hope you’re ok. A continuing pregnancy is a pregnancy that continues to develop even after the use of Mifepristone and Misoprostol abortion pills. Mar 31, 2023 · Last March I had a termination at 8. I’ve been on anti depressants since March and trying counselling. Dec 28, 2022 · After nearly 3 weeks I called the aftercare line who said it was probably normal, that the surgeon was confident everything had been removed as it was done surgically with ultrasound but they sent me for a scan just to check. I called epu earlier on today and they can't get me in until the end of the week. Apr 8, 2018 · I had an abortion 3 months ago - my boyfriend pushed me into it very hard and I didn't feel like it was my decision. But It’s just factually incorrect that you have no choice and that it’s impossible to have a child on £800 spare money a month, going up to 2k a month after mat leave. Apr 30, 2019 · It is possible to go on to have a healthy pregnancy after just the first tablet, however there are not many studies on how the drug affects the fetus as not many people change their mind half way through and so it isn’t really known what the potential effects are. Dec 22, 2022 · @Citycentre3 The abortion act is for any woman in any circumstance to have to option of being able to choose whether or not she wants to continue to gestate a baby. 5 weeks pregnant, the main reason being HG in my pregnancy, even at that point was awful. Her circumstances were very different (failure of contraception after she slept with someone she knew, but not v well - he refused to have anything to do with her when she told him. I had minor cramps after the last tablets and the bleeding didn’t pick up. I was really annoyed that there was no where/ way to report being pregnant despite taking it. Not through anything being wrong with the baby, just because you decided to end the pregnancy. Jun 4, 2019 · After 3 days the bleeding went down to being very light - I just wore a panty liner every day for the following 2 weeks in case of any blood. The process was aspiration while asleep and went smoothly for her. They did bloods first and my HCG was still 9400… had a scan and although I’d had really heavy bleeding after the abortion meds and passed lots of big clots there was still lots of tissue left and an empty pregnancy sac. He took me for an early reassurance scan the next day. 30 Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, Oct 11, 2022 · Until the womb is completely empty, you will continue to get positive pregnancy tests. Aug 2, 2019 · Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. Since the usual care for women seeking to continue pregnancies after ingesting mifepristone is expectant management with fetal surveillance, we also performed a systematic review of continuing pregnancy after mifepristone alone. His parents do alot of childcare (friday nights and some saturday mornings) so we can work and have already said they will not be able to look after a baby again. I have taken two, both are positive. Midwives strongly suggested she have a surgical abortion as they thought there would be defects. Nov 3, 2017 · You made a decision for sound reasons; terminating a pregnancy for reasons that are right for you does not preclude a feeling of regret or guilt. But my health was not getting any better. It is a massive change but abortion is something you won’t get over if you have the slight doubt in your head that it’s not the right thing to do . I'm on the pill, but I have been sick a few times within the last couple of weeks, since we last had sex. I also only had faint positive tests two weeks after the abortion and the one I have taken today is a strong dark positive. There is also a chance it will induce a miscarriage even without the second tablet. Jun 22, 2019 · Relief. vqakj svaqu pprfudf hftz jiyunk cxishe ozf kznyeymvx jaznayo antiji